A Muslim Christmas on Long Island
By Farhan Husain for The Long Island Report
Christmas is turning into a cultural holiday for some Muslims in the Long Island area as they mark the occasion with gifts, decorations, and family get-togethers.
âGrowing up, we did have a Christmas tree⊠I think just because he [dad] didnât want us to feel left out,â said student Asra Arif, 20, from Deer Park.
Indeed, itâs becoming almost a custom to celebrate Christmas for most Muslim-Americans. Many came from countries that donât even have a word for âChristmasâ but it becomes almost inevitable to join in with friends and neighbors who go âholiday-crazyâ during this time of year.
âItâs really just celebrating the season. Itâs the only time of the year where families donât have work or anything like that,â Arif said.
Arif is a first-generation Muslim-American with Pakistani parents. Her family, like many others, has made it a tradition to gather with loved ones and exchange gifts during Christmas time.
However, unlike Christian and Catholic families who celebrate the birth of Christ every Dec. 25, Arifâs family celebrates the atmosphere of the holidays. âI just enjoy the spirit of it. Iâm not celebrating anything religious, just being with familyâŠâ Arif said.
Retail manager Dafina Mexhuani, 21, from Westbury, does the same. âItâll be celebrating to the extent of, not really Christmas⊠but you know like the whole decorating, and the gift giving, and all that stuff. But if you call that celebrating it, then I guess I am,â she said.
She celebrates a holiday with her family every year around Christmas time, but doesnât call it Christmas. âI grew up in an apartment building and my dad was the super. We always used to put up a tree in the lobby, and so we started doing it in my house. Itâs just how itâs always been, really,â she said.
Mexhuani was born in the Bronx and her family of three siblings and her parents were born and raised in Albania. Sheâs never experienced a year without Christmas.
âThe idea of Christmas we just think of generally as a winter holiday, so we donât necessarily celebrate it⊠or have a significant religious attachment to it,â said Mehreen Syeda 27, from New Hyde Park, Long Island.
Syeda will be celebrating the holiday season with her Pakistani-American family, because itâs the only time of the year where everyone is off from work. Though she was not born or raised in the U.S., Syeda and her family wrapped and exchanged presents, solely to be part of something that was happening culturally around them.
âI think itâs important for kids to be knowing what their friends are going to be doing, and why theyâre doing what theyâre doing,â she said when describing how she was going to handle the holiday season with her children. Syeda said she would never steer her children away from experiencing it, though she would draw a fine line between religion and culture.
Some Muslims dislike the idea of celebrating Christmas as the âholiday season.â Things like Christmas trees and stocking stuffers tend to be associated with Christmas, so some choose to avoid those all together while still pleasing their children.
âWe do give gifts and stuff, but we donât have a tree or any of that up⊠Itâs not a Muslim holiday, therefore, we donât celebrate it,â said student Armend Cobovic, 19, from Manhattan. Cobovic and his family are from Montenegro and knew about Christmas before they moved here 15 years ago, but he was surprised to see that other Muslim-Americans celebrate Christmas.
âI think they [Muslim-Americans] are stuck into society nowadays instead of going back to their own culture,â he said. Thought he doesnât celebrate Christmas, he does exchange gifts during the holidays for another reason, âI understand getting a present, just so your child isnât left out⊠but say itâs for new year.â
With New Yearâs and other religious holidays around the end of December, it makes it the only time families get to spend time with each other.
Musho Kolenovic, 18, from Stony Brook, always gets together with his family in their upstate house during Christmas time. âItâs one of the few times in the year where everyone has off, and we can meet up, and just have good old family time,â Kolenovic said.
His family does exchange gifts during this time of the year, but they never call it âcelebrating Christmasâ because they never put up lights or a tree. âIâll take the presents over the tree anytime.â
Whether they call it Christmas or not, the family time, gifts for children, and the spirit of the holidays gets the better of Muslim-Americans because of the American culture.
âNot that my parents are opposed to it, I think their culture is different. They arenât used to celebrations like we are,â said student Sameera Namazi, 21, Valley Stream. Culture in America has adopted Christmas as part of being American, and Sameera had no issue with it, âMuslims do believe in Jesus, we can commemorate his birth⊠So if we want to, we can.â
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